In addition to being her second book, the host also invites men to read this book, since its pages address topics that “they realize of all those things that could be hurting”
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Ingrid Coronado, “MujerON” (Photo: Hugo Avreimy)
After completely separating herself from the world and putting aside all the scandals that, at some point, hurt her, Ingrid Coronado strips naked for all readers, as the host and writer published < b>MujerON which wants women and men to find themselves in order to be what they want to be.
Not even the heat of the afternoon, much less the heights, prevented Ingrid Coronado from showing herself as she is, a free person who knows and loves herself as she is.
Many people in Mexico have seen it on various television programs, some listen to it, and now the reading community will be able to enter the most intimate part, because when we read a book, we are not only reading what it thinks, but also what he believes and what he feels.
Although one of the things that surprised Ingrid was the way in which she was able to write so fluidly, as she says that with a glass of wine in hand and with his laptop he lived a “quarantine”, well, she didn’t leave her house for forty days before she managed to finish the book, but it did take her four months to find that title that she now boasts to all of Mexico MujerON.
With an invitation to attend the presentation of her book, the writer provided a space for Infobae Leamos, on one of the floors of the Ritz-Carlton hotel, to talk about the most intimate that this book is, because this is the first time that it is “undressed” for its readers.
Ingrid Coronado, “MujerON” (Photo: Hugo Avreimy)
“Here they are not only reading my thoughts, they are seeing my entrails, my entire soul. The cover just wanted to show that, that I am naked, that I am saying things that I never imagined I would dare to say.”
“I don’t like to talk about my life personal, much less of my intimate life, of course not, but through this book I am recounting some of the situations that have hurt me the most and some of the situations that have moved me the most, but all with the intention of sharing how to get through those situations.”
This is where Ingrid opened up in which she said that much of the advice that the therapists she has seen told her is to get into working in a personal and deep way “everything that served me is right here in this book”.
In this process, he mentioned that it was strong “I cried, I laughed, I cried again, but notice that there was never a point of ‘I’m not going to tell this’, like I made the decision to get naked and I did it. I didn’t know if I was going to publish it.”
She did this to express herself with everything she is “I wrote the stories, everything and without any filter. When I finished it, after forty days, I realized the transformation that had taken place in me. I realized how I was already a different woman. How I related was different and I said: ´this is good, because what I want is for other people to experience what I experienced and that is why I made the decision to share it through each of these pages ”.
One of the things that cost her the most work and that she had to face to set the example of being MujerON was when she recorded the audiobook, because “When I thought that I had already taken my bravest act, I recorded the audiobook, there is where I said: ´in the tower, now how am I going to say this?´”.
Ingrid Coronado, “Woman ON” (Photo: Hugo Avreimy)
“Writing it is not the same as saying it, there I did say: ´can’t we edit it?´and no, I have to trust that these stories, in some way, will help me connect with people and show me like this, with the most embarrassing, most painful chapters, the most difficult things that I have had to go through as a human being And as a woman too, I feel that in some way this connects me with other women because we have all experienced similar situations. It would be difficult to think that in a culture like this there are women who have not had some type of violence, for example. I think we have all experienced it”, she commented.
The experiences that Ingrid shows in her book are not only hers, they are scenarios of daily life and that “perhaps the characters, situations change, but we have all experienced situations that are very similar. Somehow I know that my story is the story of many women and what I want is for us to form a community, that we hold hands and move forward together and that we also hold hands with men and let’s tell them ´this is not good for us, in a good way, realize´”.
“If you want to have a good relationship with a woman, you have to realize how you hurt us. Perhaps the culture that you have seen tells you that this is not bad, but you are hurting us and so if you want me to talk to you and share my life with you, then it would be worthwhile for you to know how you are hurting me. and then we can have a real relationship as a couple, work, as a sister, children and parents, friends, and finally I think that many things that we do not know are serious, until you experience them yourself, is where you say: ´híjole , I won’t do this again,’” he said.
He also made an invitation to men, as he affirms that this book is not only advice for women, but also for those Big Men and that they understand the why they are told this.< /b>
“MujerOn”, Ingrid Coronado
“What I want, inviting men to read this book, is that they realize all those things in which they could be hurting, but it is important that you know that 80% of this book is not about women , is for anyone who wants to be happy, be better, wants to overcome adversity. It is a book written for men and women that, although it is called MujerON, there is also a lot dedicated to men”, he concluded.
In the book we are going to see the situations that Ingrid Coronado has suffered, since from the moments that her supposed partners belittled her until specifying that man “mouse”, which chapter three analyzes so that you can identify.
“I remember a couple who, the first time they were intimate with me, said they loved me. I believed him. But rather I think what he saw of me was a mother. Her mother seemed like a sad woman, without much of a world, but as far as it goes, a normal person. But she just seemed”, she wrote at the beginning of the chapter.
Defining that “Mouse Man” as “that insecure or ´shake it up´. Cunning, bold, but not very smart. Little constant. He is the one who tends to put himself above who he can, but he makes himself small in front of who he cannot. He many times he gets what he wants through lies. He is also a man who is afraid of commitment.”
With showing who she is, without any filter, Ingrid Coronado presents MujerON , the second book of her.